There comes a time in every man's life where he asks himself if he has done enough...
Done enough to satisfy his partner...
Done enough to satisfy his parents...
Done enough to satisfy his boss.
In fact, most of us ask ourselves those questions repeatedly, sometimes multiple times a day.
And then there's the question, "Have my results been enough for my own satisfaction?"
And the answer, all too often, is no.
So we keep DOING, and DOING, and DOING, more and more...
With the same results...
Feeling like we're bashing our heads against a wall hoping that if we do it enough something will eventually change...
That someone will finally recognize all this trying we're DOING...
That our partner, our parents, or our boss will finally give us SO much credit that it'll somehow make all the DOING worth it.
But, in the words of Melanie Ann Layer, "People don't give credit for what we're effortlessly capable of."
So we think that by DOING more things that we know we can accomplish, that will change...something.
But we DO them with the wrong intention...for the wrong reasons:
To get credit. To get seen. To get validated.
And the same results keep piling in.
Not because we're not trying, but because we're not adapting.
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The Word of Man is THE online space for men who are at a stage in life where the people they know they need to be around in life make them feel just a bit uncomfortable...because they’ll be held to a higher standard...
Most men face this: the desire to be held to a higher standard but the fear of what failing that would feel like…so we don’t try harder…we try longer at the thing we’re already doing...
And the same results keep piling in.
We say we want more out of life yet DOING more of the same just gets us more of the same.
IT IS TIME TO STEP INTO A NEW INTENTION.
IT IS TIME TO STEP INTO:
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Somewhere along the way we have subconsciously eroded our word to ourselves, because even though we tell ourselves awful things when we don’t follow through, we justify our reasons…deftly avoiding the feelings of guilt and shame.
Somewhere along the line, though, that erosion of our word begins to scratch away at our self-confidence, at how we feel about ourselves, at our belief in what we’re truly capable of. In many cases, that leads to bitterness, resentment, or just plain anger towards ourselves…and, in turn, heavily affects those around us.
It is imperative, for our own well-being, that we cultivate the relationship to our word and to ourselves. Learning to keep our word to ourselves is one of the most significantly, positively effective things we can do for our lives and for the lives of our loved ones.
The Word of Man is for men to rekindle their self-worth, their purpose, and their self-confidence…and do it for themselves, first.
There is nothing more powerful than a group of men who wish for you nothing but your own success. And if you have never experienced that before you are in for an extraordinary awakening.
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